It’s a surprising thought, and not a little disturbing, that obedience to biblical principles can be wrong. But when doing right is a strategy to get what we want, our energy is pride and our focus is self. ~ Larry Crabb in The Pressure’s Off
Think about it.
We live in a world absorbed with linear thinking. If I do A then I get B as a result. It’s simple cause and effect.
If I want to enjoy dessert then I must eat my vegetables or clear my plate.
If I want to avoid another spanking then I will pick up my toys.
If I wear the right clothes or am a standout athlete then I’ll be popular in school.
If I dress and look and talk a certain way then I’ll get the guy/girl I want to go out with me.
If I get good grades in school then I’ll have a better chance at a good career.
Linear thinking – cause and effect – has its place, but not in relationships. When we apply this principle to getting what we want from people we are manipulating them. And regardless of the outcome… it’s wrong!
This same thought process is especially dangerous in our relationship with God.
“If I read my bible regularly and pray and tithe and volunteer and ________ (fill in the blank), then God will (must) bless me with the good things of life.”
Really? Where is that written?
But I’ve been faithful to You God, why…
… did my spouse leave me?”
… is my kid rebelling?”
… are we struggling with finances?”
… are we experiencing a health crisis?”
It’s not always obvious but it’s often there just below the surface; this notion that God owes us certain blessings.
I don’t think that Jesus is opposed to such blessings in our lives, but when we seek those blessings from God more than we seek God Himself then we are committing idolatry.
And following biblical principles in order to secure blessings from God is a cheap attempt to manipulate and control God.
Jesus said that real life is being in relationship with the Father. This is what eternity in heaven is all about but it starts right here and now.
Forgives us Lord and stir our passions for wanting You more than anything or anyone else in life.
© Richard Alvey and iLife Journey, 2012. All rights reserved.